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What Is It?

Dots is a secure personal database that helps you build deep and trusting relationships with the people in your life.

Dots will train you to build a daily habit of enriching the lives of the people who matter most to you.

All great relationships are built on trust, and trust is built by following through on your commitments and showing people you genuinely care about them.

Sign up for Dots and become the person you say you are.

Features

Word Is Bond

The quickest way to build trust is to make and follow through on your commitments, even tiny ones.

To-do lists are really a list of promises you make to yourself and others. Dots will help you make sure that you keep your commitments to the people who matter.

  • Track Your Commitments

    Keep track of who you’ve committed to, when you said you’d get it to them, and how often you drop the ball to keep trust levels high and avoid overcommitment

  • Track Your Daily Interactions

    Swipeable interface to log all the people you've talked to today in under 2 minutes. Use this data to see patterns and understand who you say you want to spend time with and who you actually spend time with

  • Track Your Energy and Feelings

    Monitor trust levels by keeping track of how much energy you gained or lost, and what feelings you felt during your interactions with people

  • Build An Energy Budget

    Use our energy budgeting tool to make more informed decisions about who you spend your time with and commit to

Build the Ultimate Cheat Sheet

Remembering stuff about people is hard 😅 We'll help you figure out what's the important stuff to remember about your people, and train you to remember it better.

  • Custom Questions

    Deep and not-so-deep custom questions to help you really get to know who your people are on the inside and what makes them tick.

  • Track Relationships

    Keep track of who knows who and how

  • Conversation Threads

    Keep track of multiple conversation topics with the same person using threads.

  • Flexible Search and Categorization

    Easily categorize and search your people based on frequency, interests, personality types, and more.

  • Saved Messages

    Write messages early and before you need to send them so you always have something to say.

  • Event Reminders

    Remember birthdays, anniversaries, and all that other good stuff adults are supposed to remember. And with saved messages, you'll always know exactly what to say when you reach out!

  • Gift Tracking

    Easily remember what people like and track new gift ideas right in the app.

  • Flash Cards

    Learn names, faces, and fun facts about your people in your spare time as a productive alternative to mindlessly scrolling through Instagram.

Your Data Belongs to You

We're kind of obsessed with security, and our stack is built from the ground up to make sure that your data is safe and for your eyes only.

  • End to End Encryption

    Your data is encrypted end-to-end so we can't even see it, and always will be.

  • 2 Factor Authentication

    Mandatory 2 Factor Authentication keeps you from getting hacked by perfidious actors.

  • Isolated Instances

    Your Dots server and storage runs on its own infrastructure, completely independent of anyone else's.

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Benefits

Build Your Community

Build a community, not just a network, of deep and mutually beneficial relationships with people who you can count on to be there for you

Build Your Curiosity

Learn to use conversations to discover and remember useful information for understanding and relating to the people in your life

Build Your Confidence

Train yourself to always know what to say and talk about when reconnecting with people

Know Where You Stand

Use your data to help you understand who gives you energy and who drains it

Own Your Time and Energy

Budget your time and energy so that you can spend more time on the relationships that enrich your life and less on the ones that don't

Be A Connector

Bring value to your relationships by connecting people in your community with complimentary needs and personalities

As an introvert, Dots has changed my life. I used to be terrified of meeting new people, but now it's actually fun!

Rick Yellow - Introvert

Before Dots I didn't even know the names of my friends' kids. Now I'm able to send all of them gifts on their birthdays and for Christmas and they love me.

Lynda Mano - Friend

I never would have thought to keep track of who gives me energy and who drains it, but using Dots has helped me focus my time on people who make my life better.

Jay Frisco - Person
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